Donna, you crack me up! Believe me, after a 4 month hiatus due to pelvic rest orders, we will be having some fun that evening as well ;P
I love how you are so right about just taking charge, each year I truly wish that my hubs would plan somthing special, like I read on other people's blogs, or hear my friends talk about. But there is a time to submit, and that time is Now! Thanks to you. I will be planning valentines day this year, again, but with a refreshed look at it. 
Last year I put post-it notes all around his bathroom mirror so when he woke up, he read 41 post-it's about why I love him, each one was pink, and had one word to describe him on it. 
And I know it is after valentines day, but Titus K from church will be talking at Lipstick and Crayons on "Ways to Bless Your Husband" on the 17th. Ideas for next year, or just everyday practical things you can do to strive to be that Proverbs 31 Woman/Wife, Ha!